Comments on Because Emily Says So: Don't Rationalize A Man's Stupid Behavior.

I see your point and agree. It is hard to determin...

2008-10-10T21:15:00.000-05:00

I see your point and agree. It is hard to determine in advance when a guy from the bar is going to be a dbag. It is the risk we take when we take that chance. It is A LOT harder being the friend trying to be supportive, which is obvious from your perspective. We all come around! Be patient and prepared.

I'm not saying this person is not a well-adjusted ...

2008-10-10T19:31:00.000-05:00

I'm not saying this person is not a well-adjusted person, I believe my friend is also a well-adjusted person too, however I am saying from an outside perspective I feel this situation is particularly difficult/frustrating to deal with to help someone else see the rational side of the situation regardless of whether they are asking for advice or not. I don't think my friend believes she is madly deeply in love with this person so why deal with someone who is not that nice to you if you don't actually care or see it going anywhere? If you just want a fling find a hot sexy guy who is at the very least nice to your face. Just sayin...

I'd like to add that for the record, this particul...

2008-10-10T18:50:00.000-05:00

I'd like to add that for the record, this particular friend isn't pining away for this guy . . . she just inspired my man-hating tirade in a small way. She IS a well-adjusted human being.

I don't know that this situation could be describe...

2008-10-10T18:47:00.000-05:00

I don't know that this situation could be described as ridiculous.. since I think this "girl" has her emotions in check and isn't pining/hoping for anyone or anything. Let a sister live her life!

I dont' know that I've ever been in either of thos...

2008-10-10T16:02:00.000-05:00

I dont' know that I've ever been in either of those situations or anything similar to those because I am too much of a self proclaimed feminist when it comes to douchebaggery. However I can see where once vulnerable can get into that situation once maybe twice, but after that I don't want to hear about it anymore! If you can't help yourself after a friend gives you the outside eyes to see whats going on then I can't help you, nor do I want to discuss your ridiculous situation. I have a friend just like this that has a guy that has been dating another girl the whole time believing that he likes her. LIES. Fing guy, and F her too while we're at it, why can't she see how STUPID this is. My two cents.

Just a few entries ago, didn't you talk about how ...

2008-10-10T15:35:00.000-05:00

Just a few entries ago, didn't you talk about how you kept going back to the dude who made you walk home on a cut foot AFTER he made you walk home on the cut foot you cut storming out after he wanted to sleep with another girl and announced that on a date with you? Not everyone is out of the bad judgment woods yet. Some people take a LOT of time, Judgy McHighhorsepants. We're all young. But we'll be smart once we're 30. Or so I like to think.